It’s time to gift yourself. I’m sorry to be so cliché but its true. We all jump into this world with the belief system that if we somehow fit the mold, then we follow the footsteps and be happy. Go to school, get a job, get married and more. Never thinking do we even want this? We take jobs at places that are “safe”, and we work hard. We give up what once gave us joy. Why you ask? Because that’s what we are supposed to do.

People come to me with frustration and confusion. Often, they have had their heart broken. They think that if they could just get the relationship, it will all be okay. Others show up who are in that kind of relationship, and they know, that having that relationship doesn’t automatically bring happiness. I am not here to burst your bubble, but no accomplishment will bring you long lasting satisfaction. Codependents can go their entire life chasing validation but, never feeling validated.

Don’t become distraught — or more distraught — because you can change courses, a re-route to learning. The only person you must convince of your lovability is you. I know this can sound a bit depressing but, this is a good place to be! This is where you get to change.

This is where you must invest in yourself and gift yourself a chance to transform. Here’s the good news. I can walk you through a wonderful system in my courses. I take my over two decades of experience and pour it into you. Imagine what we can accomplish without those negative beliefs holding you back. It’s time to gift yourself this freedom, you deserve this.

—Kristina Dennis, life coach